Five Favorites

I.

Warm lotion

Gena Fresh Scent Warm O Lotion

I used to have regular mani/pedis but, in an effort to save money, have started doing my own at home. Okay, I still splurge occasionally. Anyway, I loved the warm lotion that my manicurist used to soak my nails in. After they were don’t soaking she would massage my forearm with the left over lotion, so I asked her what it was…”oh, I make my own.” What? Okay, whatever. So one day I’m cruising through Sally’s Beauty Supply because I want to buy my own warm lotion soaky thingy to do my own manicures. Imagine my surprise when I find Gena’s Fresh Scent Warm O Lotion in a gallon bottle. I open the bottle and smell it and, low and behold, it’s the EXACT SAME HOMEMADE LOTION. It’s normally 18.99 on Amazon or at Sally’s, but this fine day it was marked 50% off. I use it on my hands and arms every day as a body lotion. Fantastic! Cheap! Smells like roses, but very subtle, and when I want I can heat it my next favorite thing.

II

lotion heater

I know what you’re thinking, but this is really a nice little item. There is something very decadent about sitting on the couch and soaking your nails in warm lotion. I feel girly, girly when I do my own nails.

III

IT crowd
The IT Crowd. A coworker turned us on to this UK series about a company iT Department and their manager. It is great! Be warned, it contains bad language and sexual situations (think the UK version of The Office). Anyway…I think it’s wonderful and my husband and I and our boys laugh until we cry over the antics of Roy, Moss, and Jen. You can get it on Netflix or stream from Channel 4’s website.  We’ve watched the first 3 seasons and are awaiting the fourth in the mail.

IVhorseradish sauce

Horseradish sauce. I use it on hot dogs, hamburgers, and toasted ham sandwiches. No one else in the house likes it so it stays in the fridge and is always available. Plus it opens up my sinuses.

V.

Organix

Organix coconut milk shampoo and conditioner. I found this on sale at Walgreen’s. I think it’s too expensive full price. I brought it home and my husband, who is frugal about soap and shampoo, loves the conditioner so much he buys it full price. I’ve tried other Organix products, but again only when on sale.

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Terminal, incurable, and the future of stem cell research

On March 9, 2009, President Barack Obama signed the Stem Cell Executive Order and Scientific Integrity Presidential Memorandum. This order removed funding restrictions put in place by President George W. Bush, restrictions allowing access to only a few specific embryonic cells lines produced prior to August of 2001. There has been much debate surrounding both Executive Orders, most frequently centering on the ethics involved with the creation, usage, and destruction of human embryos. Just as important, but less often discussed in non-academic circles, is the idea that the “full promise of stem cell research” is the natural outcome of our contemporary culture’s increasing secularization. As we move farther away from worshiping God, we move closer towards worshiping health and physical perfection. The President’s opening remarks illustrate how far we have moved towards a desire “to procure unlimited life for ourselves through pursuing health” (Van Eys and Vaux, 643). In his pre-signing statement, Mr. Obama spoke eloquently of the desires of scientists to push the boundaries of research, of failed investments and missed opportunities, of a “false choice between sound science and moral values” as if the two were mutually exclusive. All the while he evoked images of salvation designed to raise the practitioners of science and medicine to a level once reserved for that of God. “To regenerate a severed spinal cord and lift someone from a wheelchair; to spur insulin production and spare a child from a lifetime of needles” [italics added].

Ultimately he closes his remarks with a statement which is easily overlooked yet one which I believe is of great importance, a theme which I believe warrants further discussion. Mr. Obama speaks of “…seeking a day when words like ‘terminal’ and ‘incurable’ are potentially retired from our vocabulary” [italics added].

Terminal and incurable: two words none of us want to hear used in relation to either ourselves or our loved ones. Terminal implies a life-limiting disease process. An incurable illness certainly can be a terminal illness but it may also represent chronic, long-term disability. But why would we wish to retire these two words? In our current secular climate, where youth and the cult of self-worship reign supreme, they represent a loss of control and personal failure. It hasn’t always been this way. Prior to advances in sanitation, the discovery of antibiotics, and the widespread use of immunizations, disease processes were poorly understood. Illness, disability and death were seen as unexpected, sudden and unavoidable. Physicians and scientists were limited in their ability to alter or delay the natural order: birth, illness, death. Powerless over the inevitable, society was dependent on medicine and religion working together: medicine to attempt to treat or cure illness, thereby delaying death, and religion playing two roles, to comfort and prepare us for when medicine invariably fails, with illness ultimately serving as an “opportunity for growth in faith and trust in God” (Hauerwas, 67) and as importantly, to articulate and define the limitations of medicine. But what happens when society becomes more secular and determines that religion should play no part in shaping the boundaries of medicine and science? When the choice between “moral values” and “sound science” are seen as competing goods? To paraphrase the Christian bioethicist Joel James Shuman, contemporary American society then comes to regard death as its enemy and American medicine desires to forestall its inevitability. Indeed the late Arthur McGill, Bussey Professor of Divinity at Harvard Divinity School, once wrote that “the ‘most crucial task’ for this culture is to ‘create a living world where death seems abnormal and accidental’” (Shuman, 60).

A religious society may view incurable illness and disability as a humbling process, a way for the sufferer to atone for past sins or to demonstrate our fall from grace, as well as a means for the healthy and whole to model God’s love to those so afflicted. And, if death represents the entry into a fullness of communion with God, while not necessarily something to desire, at the very least it loses some of its sting. For how can we fear the very thing we were created for? On the other hand, our increasingly secular society views disability as a humiliating loss of control and self-sufficiency. And, with death representing an eternity of nothingness, it becomes something to be avoided at all costs. It is this extinguishment of self that brings us to the desire to use any means, no matter how questionable or problematic, to avoid disability, illness, and ultimately death. In his address, Mr. Obama states that he is a “person of faith,” believing that society is called to care for each other and to ease human suffering: I have no doubt that this is how he sees himself and and what he believes to be true. But the alleviation of terminal and/or incurable illnesses, while perhaps beneficial to the individual, may not be of value to society as a whole.

Hauerwas, Stanley. Suffering Presence: Theological Reflections on Medicine, the Mentally Handicapped, and the Church. Notre Dame, Indiana: University of Notre Dame Press, 1986.

Shuman, Joel James. “Naming Medicine Among the Powers.” Ex Auditu (2005): p.52-66.

Van Eys, Jan and Kenneth Vaux. “A Declaration of Faith and Health.” The Christian CENTURY (1985): p.642-645.

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7 Quick Takes, Vol. 22

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Since this is the time of year for looking back over the last year and forward to the next, I thought I would provide some link ups to tools that can help us determine how we would like to express our appreciation for what we have as well as helping us look forward, as well as my “resolutions” for the next year.

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Starting here at I Saw You Dancing I found several links that I think offer some intriguing ways to look at the past and the future. I started with the following four questions to help me focus

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Real Simple Drawer Organization
I am at my very best when …
My surroundings are organized. I feel calm and confident. Whether I’m working or sewing or cooking or cleaning, if I have everything I need around me, I’m much more likely to start a new project and finish a project on time. I like being prepared.
In 2013 I will AMPLIFY my organization at home and work
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These things drove me crazy in 2012 …
I have to admit that this whole election cycle has driven me crazy. I get tired of the constant division and animosity that exists around politics. Unfortunately, much of this happens in my own family. There seems to be a trend in my family that if you don’t agree with other members’ politics it’s because you think they’re wrong, not that you have a different opinion. If you aren’t as passionate about their beliefs as they are then it’s because you don’t care. For example, if I don’t believe that the world will end as we know it and take appropriate measures, it’s because I don’t care about my children’s future.
In 2013 I will ELIMINATE instigating any political discussions. I will thoroughly investigate other’s claims before voicing my opinion.

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I really want to make/do this in 2013 …
I have enough needlework supplies to keep me busy for years. I have quilting supplies and books galore. Even though we are in the midst of financial insecurity I have enough to stay busy and satisfy my desire to be creative. I also have enough baking supplies to open my own bakery.
In 2013 I will CREATE something each week and document my progress via my blog, be it embroidery, quilting, sewing, or baking.

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Even during tough times this year, I appreciated …
I appreciate that my husband and children are healthy. I appreciate that I have a home to live in and a reliable car to drive. I appreciate that I had the opportunity to further my education. I appreciate my job that allows me to contribute to my family’s health, happiness, education, and financial security.
In 2013 I will APPRECIATE my husband

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Join me in sending prayers for Jen and her family.

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